Ditching The Obsession To Personal Development

On the personal development journey we are constantly trying to better ourselves.

It’s beautiful.

But here’s the thing…

The obsession to your better or higher or next level self could be blocking your desires.

Hear me out -

First of all, the constant judgement of yourself as you currently are places all your goals and desires in the future, like you have to be perfectly next level to attract them.

Capitalism has us believing we have to do (more work) in order to have (more things), in order to be (happy)

We assume our next level self is fucking perfect, she does no wrong, she’s sexy and turned on all the time, she does all the right things… which is impossible. We’ll never reach Her if that’s our vision of our million dollar self.

And again, we’re putting our desires with That self… in the perfect future… that we can never seem to reach.

This is EXHAUSTING.

So here’s how to fix this up in the next 30 days:

- Find true, deep love for who you already are and how far you’ve already come. It’s amazing!

- Notice your thoughts about yourself each day, and as negative thoughts roll in (ex. I hate my body, I’ll never find the perfect partner, Money is so hard for me to make) notice it, send it love, and replace it with a question or curiousity (example: why do i hate my body? What would happen if i loved my body?)

- Watch your alignment, follow what feels good and makes you feel aligned and free. Don’t be anything you don’t want to be just because someone told you it’s how things are done.

- Have a scripting party with yourself, your partner, or your friends with candles and vibey music. Write down something you’re ready to call into your life and read it every morning and night. Get comfortable being the woman who has it. Focus on the feeling it gives you and be courageous enough to embody it in the next few days.

- Don’t be afraid to be a bit naughty. Tap into your bad girl and let her feel fully expressed. Your inner good girl wants you to stay small… get big, try something uncomfortable, and stand in your power

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